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“My neighbors are disturbing me. How do you deal with tough human like these?”
I’ve been asked this answer SEVERAL periods now, so I thought I’d write an treatise on the topic.
The word “harassment” is a very spacious term. For assorted people it can average everything from neighbors who are verbally abusive and deflating your tires to people who are just plain nosey.
It’s a little like saying, “My dog is misbehaving”. You wouldn’t begin at once along going ashore your dog’s “misbehavior” in common. You’d absence to converge on the SPECIFIC forms of misbehavior that are causing a problem, such for jumping up aboard people, or barking also much,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], etc…
So, the first thing to do is to nail the characteristic type of harassing behavior that is causing the problem.
For the sake of discussion let’s say that your neighbors are frequently rude or disrespectful to you and your family. They use a "hit and run” fashion of verbal abuse.
The next thing to do is… speak to them? (I can already listen you saying, “I tried that and it didn’t work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]!”) Let me clear about this… NO!
The next thing to do has NOTHING to do with talking to them.
In fact, jumping into operation too immediately is often where people go wrong right off the cmd. It’s almost guaranteed that you ambition DO or SAY the wrong things, which just make things WORSE.
No, the next thing to do namely IMAGINE… extra specifically, to visualize the direction you’d like asset to be with your adjoin instead of the direction asset are. In other words, set your goal and visualize it.
You might want to corner them into friends or you might want to have rare merely polite interactions. That’s ok. Just be quite remove almost your goal