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Have you been trying desperately hard to get your ex back? Would you finally like to know your ex's psychology and why your attempts have all failed? Look no further,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because things are about to become very clear. I have the once and for all solution that will get your ex back fast, because I was once there in your shoes, and I got my ex back. Read on to find out exactly how I pulled my ex back....
Desperation and the Ego do not go together!
"I love you, I can't live without you!"
"Can I see you, why won't you take me back?"
"You should take me back, because you won't find any better!"
"You are the best thing to happen in my life...."
"I miss you..."
"You are so great...."
"You are a jerk"
"Why do you ignore me, I know you love me, because I love you"...
All of these things were things I had at one point and time said to my ex! I am sure you have said something along those lines as well. What happens in here, is I am expressing exactly how desperate I was,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! By telling my ex that I cannot live without him, and then the next minute trying to say they wont be able to find anything better,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I only dig a deep hole for myself.
When we don't get the results we want, we then begin insulting our ex and begin to try and use manipulative strategies that only make us look more desperate. You see, arguing with your ex will not work. Telling your ex you love him/her and want them will only boost their ego. Your ex will sit there with a huge ego boost thinking they are so great, and have someone chasing them. The fact that you are entertaining his/her ego so much now makes him/her think and feel these two things.
"If I am that great, then why should I take you back... I can have anyone I want now..."
"I am getting more attention now, than you ever gave me before..."
Your ex will keep you separated, just to keep getting the same reactions from you, because the ego boost does that to their psychology.
Arguing with your ex, and trying to convince/force him/her to take you back, is also a big no-no. Reason being,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is because they will only find counter arguments to prove you wrong. Even if you disagree with him/her, they will in their own mind only be more convinced then that they should not be with you, because you have now prompted them to actually prove you wrong... which they will. Past will be pulled up, and then you will find each other playing a wicked game of blame, guilt, insults and many other things.
The secret trick,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], therefore, is to completely ignore your ex. Stop calling, stop emailing... stop every form of contact for at least two weeks. I know it is hard, but you can do this,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you must do this if you want your ex back. The lack of recognition and rejection your ex will feel will drive them crazy to have you back, and to get your time and attention again.