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Do at least one thing every day that makes you smile. Maybe its visiting the pet store, going to a matinee, reading poetry out loud, or listening to the wind chimes on a blustery day. If you have no clue about what makes you smile [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], put a basket in any high traffic area in your home. Whenever something happens that makes you smile, jot it down on a piece of paper and drop it in the basket. After a week or two, empty the basket and youll be surprised by the things that bring you joy.
2. Stop taking everything so personally. Sometimes its just not about you! How often do you interpret others' comments or actions personally and make them about you? When you see your neighbor at the grocery store and she walks by without saying hello, do you assume:
a. I did something wrong;
b. Im not good enough for her or;
c. Shes ignoring me because I didnt invite her son to little Billys b-day party.
If the answer is any one of the above [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], try reinterpreting her behavior. For example, is it possible that your neighbor:
a. was focused on picking artichokes and she just didnt see you;
b. was just in a car accident and is trying to shake it off;
c. just realized shes turning 50 next week and has to schedule her first colonoscopy.
Do your interpretations create a feeling of peace or stress? If the answer is stress, create a new story to explain her behavior that you feel good about. The bottom line is you really have no idea what is going on with your neighbor, so why not choose a meaning that makes you feel good?
3. Evaluate your to do list. Make a list of ten things you have to do this week. Next perform what I call a body scan. Notice how your body responds when you imagine doing each of these things on your list. Does your body feel tense? Do you feel a pit in your stomach? Focus on the task that brings up the most pain, and ask yourself why you are planning to this thing that causes you to feel anxious or stressed. If the answer is I have to, then you set yourself up to be in a completely helpless position. There are no alternatives when you operate from that principle. If the answer is I choose to do it because if I dont it would be morally repulsive [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you come from a more powerful place and one of choice.
4. Show your gratitude, it will change your attitude. Each night before bed time, write down 5 things that happened in your day for which you are most grateful. It could be as simple as I woke up today or my roses are in bloom. Dont think it, write it down. When you put pen to paper it makes an imprint on your brain and it will resonate more deeply within you. Start a Gratitude Journal and I guarantee that your joy meter will rise.
5. Give unto others. One year ago, my family and I became involved in a homeless organization. We spend one Sunday each month feeding the homeless who patiently stand in line waiting for a free meal. My kids and I listen to heart wrenching stories about how these individuals lost their jobs, their relationships and ultimately their homes. Surprisingly, my problems, which seemed so large only an hour earlier, felt quite small in comparison. Giving to others puts things in perspective and reinforces feelings of appreciation and gratitude.
6. Laugh at least twice a day. Stop taking what your spouse says so seriously and add a dose of humor. Sometimes when my husband and I are arguing, I will tell a joke or make a silly face. We inevitably break out into belly laughter and it makes us realize how ridiculous we sound. Its amazing how humor can add levity to a serious situation. I will also call my funniest friend and we giggle about how often we forget where we parked our cars and how many times weve repeated a story to one another. If you cant muster up joy from poking fun at yourself, turn on the comedy channel. Laughter is truly medicinal.
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