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Does he like you, but now you are ready to make him truly love you? Does it seem like the harder you try,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the more distant he becomes? Are you so confused that you don't know what to do next? You are probably making some common mistakes that have been destroying great relationships for thousands of years. Avoid the landmines of disaster, and follow this course if you want to make him truly love you.
Be an independent woman.
Men love attention, but they like the attention of an independent woman, not of a clingy little girl. You know Aunt Mary's little dog, Foofy? Every time you come to the door, there he is, yipping and bouncing. He follows your every step, humps your leg, and chews on your shoes. When you sit down, he is on your lap,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], licking your face,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], panting in your ear, and drooling on your dress. If he would just sit still and be mellow, you would love to hold him and pet him. He's so cute and adorable. But he is just too much, and you need to get away. Don't be his Foofy.
Show him a mature, controlled, independent woman. Keep phone calls brief and "businessy." Get to the point and get off. Keep having a life of your own. Men begin to feel trapped and threatened if you want to be with them all the time, no matter how much they like you. Tell him you're going out with the girls some nights,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and let him keep his own life too.
Become part of his life.
As things develop, you can wean him off too much time with the guys and include yourself in more and more of his activities. Weave yourself into some things he has to do, like grocery shopping and laundry day, and then edge into the things he likes to do-ballgames, billiards, darts. Then bring him into your world with outings to museums, biking in the park, cappuccino and muffins-whatever. This is the way to make him truly love you.
Keep the physical contact to tempting samples for now. He has to need you, the person,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], before he deserves your other delights. It is important to combine the emotional growth of becoming partners in life with some physical reinforcement to be sure. But don't let your physical involvement move faster than his emotional investment, as proven by the little ways he includes you in his life.
Don't make it happen; let it happen.
It's just a simple fact-it's going to take him longer to fall in love than it takes you. A man's first reaction when he notices he is falling is the same as your response when you're falling off a chair-hold on and don't let go! Men are born to wander, and they have a natural fear of attachment. Even though they want love, the reality of it feels like a trap at first. They will not let love pull them in without a fight.
So don't complicate things with hurt feelings and lectures about how he should be more loving. As you intertwine your life with his in non-romantic ways, you will be planting and nurturing the seeds of love that must grow inside of him. When he is filled with love from the inside, he will know how comfortable and non-threatening it is. Just don't force the issue. Let it happen, and you will make him truly love you.