Love him and accept his background

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Mother and daughter had each other. When her daughter graduated from college soon and fell in love with a boy classmate, a love that the focus, so pure. The boy from the village, put up with hardships at home, a widowed mother there, he was a posthumous child. Mother saw the boy and that boy's family background [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they flatly refused, and his daughter between.
daughter asked the mother, you are not Xianpinaifu? Mother shook her head. Do you think he is not good enough? Mother shook her head and said: You seem perfect for each pair. Then you must think he is sincere enough love [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], enough to entrust a lifetime? No, his mother said: you love the deep, but love can also hurt. If you are lucky enough to grow old, but you will not be happy. Daughter smiled, there will be no happy love marriage? Mother anxious: the most love, marriage may not be harmonious. If you must marry him [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then stay in the city, stay with me.
daughter looked at her mother stared a long while, and suddenly, the circle around for a long time, will afford the mother is in the plan for their future. Why is it so selfish mother? Only of himself, had set the expense of her daughter's happiness?
her inconsolable, from deepening of the mother's prejudices, that she was vulgar, simply move the school to live. She even thought that father and mother are divorced mother who causes such a selfish father who must have lost patience.
finally, graduation, obligations of duty-bound to follow the boy her daughter came to his home, only to leave a few words to his mother, the mother would not even listen to any explanation. Then hastily married, the boy would rush to his mother received at home.
years in this small town in the mottled off, when the love that once plump dressed trivial gradually eroded by life too skinny, miserable, happiness is always the illusion of a distant abstraction. Sorry for yet another night, my daughter suddenly remembered his mother's words: you can grow old, but you will not be happy. Mother, initially sees clearly how the camel, I know he can not give happiness? Why had the patience of even my mother did not explain? Hurry love, love rush, the daughter began to regret it. She suddenly had wanted to see the mother.
her weary mother back home to find his mother at the moment, she Lei Yu torrential. Mother asked: Is he the love of another person more deeply than love you? Daughter nodded. Is not he always stood in the position of the man and set the expense of your feelings? Daughter nodded. Is not he the man you always toe the humiliation? Yes. That person to make you jealous but you hate, do nothing? Yes. That person is his mother, right?
daughter glanced at his mother, how her mother would not think of a foregone conclusion. Mom, how do you know? Mother sighed and said: Your father is an only child, as I and your grandmother-law relationship between the conflict, resulting in the deterioration of relations between husband and wife. So that the original two people face to face, had become a back to back, from my mirror, I see you after a few years. One and can not communicate his or her biological mother, who, I do not know how to face her a widow for several decades, psychology may be the dark side of the mother, which I strongly opposed contacts you reason with him.
Mom, I want a divorce. Her daughter said.
mother said nothing, picked up an orange, handed her hands. Watching her daughter take off the peel, throw on one side, said: We want, want to eat but only a golden orange petals, orange peel and orange petals, but it is sold as a whole, whether you like it or not, They are always closely linked. Like marriage, not just marry someone you love, but also with the background of the person you loved marriage. Not only do you have to love the person you like, but also love the people associated with him. Not only because you love yours, he belongs to his parents and friends. Marriage in the index not by the decision of love before marriage, it often depends on your attitude to get along with his family. Mother patted her daughter's hand, if you still love him, to accept the school with his family, learn to be patient tolerance. Unfortunately, I realize the true meaning of marriage was already too late.
men and women in marriage failed, always complaining about the wrong object, in fact, did not understand the beginning, the choice of love at the same time, also a lifestyle choice and a way of life against the background of this background way of life under the chores, the decision of marriage harmony. Makes marriage frustrated exhausted, so much barely veiled foreign invasion, as it is tedious small family entanglement. Many people think that marriage is to marry a simple man, never even thought of marrying the man behind the background [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and finally the love of two people waving helplessly.