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To change any specific behavior or emotion, you have to eliminate the beliefs and conditionings that cause it. That’s relatively easy. To change how we view and deal with reality in the broadest sense [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we have to change how reality occurs for us on a moment by moment basis, which is the result of several factors: Beliefs and conditionings formed by our personal experiences and by being a part of specific organizations and cultures. (I mentioned this latter source of beliefs in last week’s post and gave a few examples.)
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Our Stage of Development

For example people in the “mythic” or “traditional” stage view the world though a filter of traditional values and faith. They believe there is only one “right way”: that of their community in most cases. Their beliefs are based on faith. Most religious fundamentalists are in this stage of development.
During the past couple of weeks several readers have asked me: “What’s so new about this ‘occurring’ distinction? Haven’t you been saying for years that our beliefs and conditionings determine our behavior and emotions?”
A second stage is frequently called “modern” and is characterized by reason supported by evidence. As a result this stage produces science and led to the industrial revolution. Here problems are solved using reason and gathering evidence. Important values for this stage include autonomy, independence, and success. A person with this viewpoint requires evidence before believing something. Most scientists and businesspeople are in this stage.
A third stage, which really came into its own in the 1960s in America, is “pluralistic” or “post-modern,” and calls for equal rights regardless of gender, sexual preference, skin color, etc. It also places importance on spirituality (as distinct from religion) and environmental sustainability. Its values include community, consensus, and equality for all. A person in this stage sees values in all perspectives and ideas, and hates hierarchy of all types. Most people in the “personal growth” movement are in this stage.
In addition, there is one other important factor that determines what meaning you are likely to give reality: The developmental stage you are at in life. There are a number of developmental theorists who agree that societies and individuals necessarily pass through various developmental stages, during which they view the world very differently. (See almost any book by Ken Wilber or Spiral Dynamics by Don Beck and Christopher Cowan.)
This distinction is important because how things occur for us has a significant impact on how we view and deal with the world, apart from the influence of old beliefs and conditionings.
On the other hand, the way we interact with reality on a moment by moment basis is largely a function of how it occurs for us (the meaning we create on a moment by moment basis), which is a function of several factors, the most important of which seems to be all of our beliefs and conditionings.
Consider that most specific behaviors and emotions are caused by a relatively small number of beliefs and conditionings. For example, procrastination and social anxiety are caused by about 16, fear of rejection by about nine, and worrying about what others think of us by about 10. Even the most complex issues like eating problems and chronic depression usually are caused by less than 50.
Everything else being equal, “reality” will occur very differently for people living in the traditional, modern, or post-modern stage of development. The stage you are at determines to a great ex
Yes and no. I have said that our specific behavior and emotions are caused primarily by our beliefs and conditionings. But how things occur for us is a different phenomenon. [b]It is a new meaning for the reality we are observing that we create on the spot [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even though the meaning is determined largely by our existing beliefs and conditionings.